"You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To
change something, build a new model that makes the existing model
obsolete."
a blog about a girl who left where she was from; about the secret magic things in life (ie: food,music,art,wine,dapper men, academia,weekend treks).
Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Tuesday, April 9, 2013
Girls Star Zosia Mamet Asks: Is Dating a Don’t Now?
"The sweetest thing someone can do is to listen to you. To be thoughtful. To accept your neuroses. That’s love. And at the end of the day, isn’t that what we all want?"
http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2013/04/girls-star-zosia-mamet-asks-is-dating-a-dont-now?mbid=social_fb_fanpage
this article explains how it's not a bad thing to have rules and define things when dating. i feel like i've learned all these mistakes the hard way, but i know now what i really want to get out of a relationship.
now, i just have to be patient. which is one of my biggest flaws.
cool.
http://www.glamour.com/sex-love-life/2013/04/girls-star-zosia-mamet-asks-is-dating-a-dont-now?mbid=social_fb_fanpage
this article explains how it's not a bad thing to have rules and define things when dating. i feel like i've learned all these mistakes the hard way, but i know now what i really want to get out of a relationship.
now, i just have to be patient. which is one of my biggest flaws.
cool.
lately
two job offers -
only time will tell.
in the mean time i'm going to drink at a lot of happy hours and wait and possibly lie a bit.
i would like a move though. and if not that, a nice two- three week vacation between old and new jobs.
only time will tell.
in the mean time i'm going to drink at a lot of happy hours and wait and possibly lie a bit.
i would like a move though. and if not that, a nice two- three week vacation between old and new jobs.
Monday, April 8, 2013
holistic coach
Saw this from Holistic Coach today on my FB feed. https://www.facebook.com/My.Holistic.Coach
"Joy booster!!! We don't have to have all the answers all the time. Accept yourself where you are now, and allow the answers to come to you. Shake off the pressure with doing something fun. Even a 5 minute dance party can do just that :)"
The Future Hypothetical Full Catastrophe.
http://www.elephantjournal.com/2010/03/marriage-john-singer-sargent/
I REALLY like this Elephant article. I am in no way ready for marriage, but i like the romantic mentions of love, partnership, and
taking the plunge!!!
risk is scary but how exciting (and joyous if it works out well)!
I REALLY like this Elephant article. I am in no way ready for marriage, but i like the romantic mentions of love, partnership, and
taking the plunge!!!
risk is scary but how exciting (and joyous if it works out well)!
Sunday, April 7, 2013
cleaning you out for some new delight
"This being human is a guest house.
Every morning, a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be cleaning you out for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes because each has been sent as a guide from the beyond."
—Rumi
Every morning, a new arrival.
A joy, a depression, a meanness, some momentary awareness comes as an unexpected visitor.
Welcome and entertain them all!
Even if they're a crowd of sorrows, who violently sweep your house empty of its furniture, still, treat each guest honorably.
He may be cleaning you out for some new delight.
The dark thought, the shame, the malice, meet them at the door laughing, and invite them in.
Be grateful for whoever comes because each has been sent as a guide from the beyond."
—Rumi
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