Cut from the Team

I am cutting the WG from the team.

Our first two dates were awesome. Our third date he took me to a shitty resto, we split the check, then he didn't even pay for my $4.00 gelato.  Then all he wanted to do was have sex, "cuz he's not looking for anything right now" EXCEPT FOR SEX, I GUESS.

ALSO HE TOLD ME I WASN'T FUNNY. even if i'm not, don't you just lie or something?! "that's not funny." what a Dick!!!

So recently I heard this quote from somewhere, it was something like, "If a man tells you he is not looking to be serious believe him" - meaning if someone directly tells you they are not looking for a serious relationship, they are telling you the truth.  And the best thing you can do for yourself is believe them and move on.

I think to many women (myself included in the past) want to believe they can be the one that "Changes" their man.  And that's always a losing game. Why waste your time on someone who blatantly tells you you are not what they are looking for?

So - even though i like the WG and thought he had potential - WG is being cut from the team because i do not have time to waste on a guy that doesn't want to date me and ONLY wants me for sex. gross.

My Date Sunday

I had a date on Sunday with a wonderful man. We'll call him, WG for Wonderful Guy.

The WG came over to my place Sunday morning and RE-BUILT my Bike that i have so long for and missed!!!

It was very appealing watching him get out his tool box and build it for me. and sweat over me.  Very cute indeed.

Then we went for a bike ride over to his house. He lives in a big group house with a huge deck and garden.  He showed me some starter plants and the compost he built last week. He wanted to kiss me right then and there but he didn't cuz i wasn't gonna let him yet.

Then we went to a coffee shop.

Then we rode our bikes to Rock Creek Park and we sat by the creek and he surprised me by pulling a picnic our of his backpack!!!

Baguette, Italian sopressata salami (the fat in it tasted like butter; it was amazing), Blue cheese, figs, smoked salmon and dark chocolate!

Then, finally we went to Meridian Hill Park to see the infamous Drum circle that gathers every Sunday afternoon and has for 50 years!

We were quite PDA-ish and ridiculous and it makes me wonder and/or worry i may actually really want to give more attention than is usually given to men to the WG.