everyone from back home says they "live in Detroit." but they live in Royal Oak or Ferndale. Not many in Detroit. Maybe a third of who says it. Lame.
My FB page continues to explode with babies. One person in particular who is my age had a baby. Her baby looks like the dad. And that's not a good thing.
What if i have a baby and they look like my manly husband - only they are a girl?
What if i have a husband who is sexy to me but has a large nose or other random facial feature and then our baby doesn't pull it off as well as him?
Weird.
Obviously if the babies i have look like me it will all be ok. ;)
just sayin'....
Having a long term relationship and/or babies still freaks me out and i don't see how that could change. Does time wear you down and you change your mind? Do you get a sudden sense of mortality and freak and want to have a "legacy" that lives and breathes? Do you get bored? Do you simply want to see the product of you and your partner and what they would look like, who they would be?
I mean you have to be somewhat brave to do it. It's the ultimate gamble. You don't know what you're going to get and you will have to be responsible for it the rest of your life even if it hates you. even if it's an addict. even if it blames you for everything. That's ballsy.
Probably the only good thing about babies are that they are a true sign that Love is in the world and everyday it is happening all around us, all the time, in all different forms.
My FB page continues to explode with babies. One person in particular who is my age had a baby. Her baby looks like the dad. And that's not a good thing.
What if i have a baby and they look like my manly husband - only they are a girl?
What if i have a husband who is sexy to me but has a large nose or other random facial feature and then our baby doesn't pull it off as well as him?
Weird.
Obviously if the babies i have look like me it will all be ok. ;)
just sayin'....
Having a long term relationship and/or babies still freaks me out and i don't see how that could change. Does time wear you down and you change your mind? Do you get a sudden sense of mortality and freak and want to have a "legacy" that lives and breathes? Do you get bored? Do you simply want to see the product of you and your partner and what they would look like, who they would be?
I mean you have to be somewhat brave to do it. It's the ultimate gamble. You don't know what you're going to get and you will have to be responsible for it the rest of your life even if it hates you. even if it's an addict. even if it blames you for everything. That's ballsy.
Probably the only good thing about babies are that they are a true sign that Love is in the world and everyday it is happening all around us, all the time, in all different forms.
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